If you start to act strange and nervous when talking to a woman, you're probably going to ruin everything before you even had the chance to start. Treating a woman you just met as if she were the love of your life is something that should NEVER be done. Instead, it takes a very different approach. My favorite is to assume that every woman has something that will bother me, bother me, or will ruin all chance with me. The main reason I do this is: SURPRISE …! IS WHY IT IS TRUE The fact is that most women are not compatible "long term" with most men.
In other words, if you look at a long term relationship with a woman particular, it is likely that she will have things on it that you will not like it. One of my most favorite subjects to follow is: "You're ruining your chances with me." Say I'm walking down the street with a girl to go for a cup of tea. Let us assume that she and I just met the night before, I have your phone number, and now we're walking to tea. At the entrance of the cafeteria, she stumbles to the door. I could look at her, shake her head in a desaprobante "so a little annoyed" and say "This relationship will not even work." Then, say, fifteen minutes later she spills her tea on the table and herself. I will move the head back and say "What I said about this kind of behavior?".