To accept does not mean that we must like what happened in the past or that we are in agreement with it. To accept means for us, to take responsibility from which already happened and was of that way. Instead of we focused in fighting against those moments that already happened, which we needed to do is to accept it and to put that energy at the disposal of our dreams and objectives. We maintain that the acceptance comes from the hand of the respect. If we accepted different glances, different people a we, are respecting to the other like legitimate other.
From coaching ontological we learn to observe and to respect that different points of view exist each human being and tried to construct effective agreements from these differences to obtain a transformation in the coexistence with the other. We learn to give to our pairs the possibility that they are as they want to be in spite of not being in agreement with that. This does not mean that we are justifying his to drive, simply we give the permission him to express itself with freedom and its special form to be. This is translated in most wonderful and challenging than the human being it faces nowadays, nothing else and nothing less than with his own existence, that acquires sense through the relations that forges with those who it coexists. Ten in account following check-list TO ACCEPT means: To make important how you feel instead of which is happening. To make important your balance instead of dejarte to take by the situation.
To make the relation important instead of to look for to be right and answers for everything. To make your important objectives and dreams instead of enfocarte in the circumstances that are not as you would like that they were. I give some questions to you so that you are observed in your capacity of acceptance.