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Who Likes Luck ?

November 5, 2018


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Have you ever ever have you so that you see something interesting, exciting and thought: 'That's cool, how !..', and held a party. Or maybe you came across an original idea, and in your head from somewhere appeared a stray thought: 'That's it !..', and you continued doing business as usual. Andrew Cuomo will not settle for partial explanations. Or sit next to you girl of your dreams or Man with a capital letter, and you turned away, saying to himself: 'It does not happen! ..' And in most, but that in the majority, always after you have long thought this case, lost in thought possible consequences if things turned differently, or rather, if you behave in another way … Can not answer. You might even say, 'Yes I did not have a never! " And if it does so, I congratulate you: you – one in a million! Just as if everything is for real? And as far as you are honest with yourself? But now everyone else will say or think, 'Yes! And if I had! .. ' You're probably thinking, where I know this? Yes, I – the very same! For example, for a long time I want to live in his house somewhere in the suburbs …

But why do I still live in this type kopeck piece? Why are we, who often those who rarely use not provided us the Universe opportunities? Why do we say: 'Come on … Sometime later … Maybe … ' Do you think because of uncertainty? Sometimes … Or because of fear of failure? Maybe …

Or because of possible censure or ridicule from others? And it is also takes place … Or because of our employment? Of course … Or our lack of foresight and inability to see the prospects? It happens … You can go on and on that list. And each will find its root cause. Just about everything we forget or do not want to acknowledge our one habit. JUST HABIT! We are all accustomed HESITATE! Later. For tomorrow. On Monday. On the first day. Before the new year. Every time we put off something (call, wash bowl, pay the rent, to praise the child, kiss their husband or wife goes into the pool, etc., etc., etc. …) we are reinforcing the habit of procrastinating. And becomes its slave. And then wonder: 'Why did not I called? .. Why not go? .. Not done? .. Do not stop? .. Not bought? .. ' But one only something made in time, can change our lives! Sometimes only one step done in time depends on: – finding or losing – poverty or wealth – or Love hatred – Life or Death … But we can not do this step because it USED TO HESITATE! I will not call you for something. Why? It's just your choice, your only solution – to continue to defer, or take action. J. Clason in his book 'The Richest Man of Babylon' clearly said: 'LUCK LOVE work! "


January 3, 2016


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Understand what you want to dream of many psychologists, but it is often represented as follows: 'I'm going to help people. I will meet with good people, talk with them heart to heart and grow with them as a person. " For this you money will not pay. More complex, and difficult to start with learning 'on the psychologist', it is not easy and not always interesting. Typically, high school preparation involves first 1.5-2 years, most of the last three year study is no longer like: repetitions, the theory of knowledge impractical.

Further, to whom you are going to learn? If the therapist, after graduating from college with no work experience you will most likely take on a meager salary in social security for conversations with people who have something does not add up in life. However, the psychologist – is not necessarily a psychotherapist, and do not necessarily lock themselves in helping people with mental difficulties. You may want to advise people with a lack of everyday experience in family relationships or child rearing, it is not psychotherapy and counseling. Or maybe you work to attract a coach – it's a different format and skills. In any case, you should know: There are four major schools or direction in Applied Psychology: NLP, psychoanalysis, Gestalt approach and Sinton approach. They are different and one approach, experts often do not understand the other specialists. In order to determine and meet with representatives of these schools, discussions, look, look for his own.