Surely more than once you’ve heard this term and has upset you so you decided not to listen / read what you were told about it. It may be possible, has a name quite technical and, for some reason, makes us think of exhibitors, skills and never-ending talks. I must confess that initially I was also dam of these unpleasant sensations, but as I was aware of what was really, I was increasingly interested, and found that its practice can radically change our lives. So I’d like to share a little of what I discovered about personal coaching, or the art of training the mind. The term personal coaching a was coined in the U.S.. States, in sport and fully translated, means a personal training. This is key, since it is precisely what we do if we want to achieve wellness in our lives: TRAINING. This does not mean that we should jogging every morning, make a number of exercises with weights or four laps to give the Olympic swimming pool every day, what we have to TRAIN IS OUR MIND. A mind that is not exercised, or is not willing, will never leave its parameters and, therefore, can never lead to happiness and welfare. Do you feel dissatisfied or satisfied by the life you lead? “DO YOU FEEL UNABLE TO MEET YOUR GOALS OR SIMPLY lack them? RETHINKING WANT YOUR LIFE BUT LITTLE BY Da “NDEA BEGIN? If you ask how are you, or the like, I have been around for the head, then it might be a good idea to resort to personal coaching, then you begin to train your mind to make the changes you require.
Inspirational motivation has to do with clear communication of expectations, vision and mission and a shared commitment to the organization, actively engaging employees, providing the challenges and excitement in them. Intellectual Stimulation (IS), is related to actions and behaviors such as the stimulation of creativity and innovation partners, through constant questioning and finding new ways to perform their activities, reformulating problems and challenging them to alternatives outside the status quo. The individualized consideration, it is to pay special attention to the needs of individuals and groups to develop and grow according to the needs of the organization. All this in order to achieve better performance and greater satisfaction, fostering a greater commitment, involvement and loyalty, with less stress and despite the contingencies, and even, according to circumstances, try to reinforce, or change-culture and organizational policy, more participatory or more directors. The executive or manager, to become a coach, need to acquire managerial expertise in those areas that beyond its technical and managerial skills will empower and coach business leadership in a context of transforming human groups: it is in the leadership of human systems configured by human beings, culturally and emotionally interrelated, multiple and complex conversational networks, verbal and nonverbal that seek to achieve individual and collective goals.
For this reason this course is aimed at providing a systemic approach based on Management Coaching, in order to increase the powers management. Management Methods of Coaching can be seen basically two different modes of Coaching Management. The first where the coach is external.
However, many centuries before there is a history in India and China authentic concerning contemporary coaching. Recall for example the work Tao Te Ching by Lao Tse, to which I can summarize by saying: a The who knows a lot of others is a knowledgeable, but wiser is he who knows himself is. He who dominates others is strong, but he who masters himself is more powerful a might also mention Confucius, Buddha . A, and many more. Socrates urges all self-examination and self-control which is driving. Question: a Can you trust someone who has no self-control? a Aristotle also says that man can become what you want. You can go from being a I what we call today’s reality, to have to b want to get the vision, objectives. The methodology for this path. Already in the last century, there has been an influence of existentialist philosophy.
The essence of coaching is individual existence determined individual existence existentialism. We have the capacity to become aware of our current reality and consider our own lives. Especially in environments a Hispanic Americans, has had some influence acceptance of Humanistic Psychology through the so-called Ontological Coaching. A HTSP is a type of coaching can affect aspects that seem related to what we call way of being of individuals. At the end of the last century Timothy Gallwey developed a method widespread in the sport which he called The inner game is best defined his own words:
2. Confidence vs. Control People do not just do not like to be controlled, but also that the control is no longer effective. The emotions predispose actions, depending on the emotional why we are being crossed, there are behaviors that are possible and others not. The control is based on the emotionality of the fear that restricts creativity, innovation and learning, people stop taking risks and facing challenges to go unnoticed and abide by the status quo. But the jobs have changed over time, today there is no simple task that this is where you do not have to be taken once a decision or face a challenge.
When that happens you can not always be there, plus you should not be there. The leader’s role is more akin to a conversational character operational again in another article on this point. On the other hand although it may be difficult to admit, most of the time the employees know more of his work that his own boss. So what roads can be opened to what is necessary is done? a) Build the enabling environment for action. The new regulatory systems require a different emotional for the emergence of skills required of new job profiles, talk of independent people who can respond quickly to change, proactive, capable of challenging targets and openness to learning. The emotionality that enables this kind of behavior is trust. b) The manager no longer in control coach focuses on actions and processes to manage results. 3.
The skills missing from their employees or equipment are an indicator of management. How many of us have seen year after year as performance evaluations, there are employees who consistently get low scores and immense opportunities for improvement to put it positively, such cases are resolved by dismissal or job rotation. Another point view that enables you to design actions to improve results is that: one of the indicators of competence as a leader, is directly related to development and learning of his team. The manager coach bet on the potential of each employee, the competent perceive possibilities beyond their present, while working in the gap between their current situation and the situation to achieve. Developing skills is a process of learning. All learning brings with it a small crisis for those passing through it is a movement of deconstruction and reconstruction that involves a level of anxiety and uncertainty. To cope with less resistance is important that the leader will hold its bond and generate an environment conducive to learning without penalizing the error. Under the coaching understand that someone learns when it increases its capacity to act effectively. So for anyone to learn is necessary to create the space for it to work, and occasionally make mistakes, mistakes and successes are well considered valued opportunities to learn. The question of leading the process will point to what is missing, and how I can assist the team to anticipate their breaks, to facilitate their learning and help dissolve the limitations?