I belonged again! During a panel discussion, someone mentioned the success he had when working with a life coach. Immediately, I thought to myself. As I learned more about what it was training, I thought it might be the push I needed to deal with my problems of accountability. After many failed attempts, I finally got the courage to call the trainer. The first two sessions were “antennas.” General questions and exchange background information. Over the next few months we have worked on my agenda, seeking a new career. Every week I returned, I knew my coach was there to see if I stuck to the plan.
I had a companion, someone to trust, and exchange ideas with someone as interested as I find an answer. The energy of our meetings took me week to week. Towards the end of one year from the thing certainly given me a career outside. We worked through dozens of possible scenarios together, but eventually come to “no.” I began to realize he was talking more about my experience as a coach than anything else. I felt compelled to tell everyone I know, and even some people not on how the process was powerful.
I was discovering things about myself that I never took the time to think. Then it occurred to me. Life-coaching – News ResultsObituaries for Dec. 23, 2010 The Union Democrat – Dec 23 04:34pmLake County Calendar Vernon Hills Review – Dec 23 02:16amInternet safety not a lost cause for parents Seattle Times – Dec 22 07:08pmPromotional ResultsMake Yahoo! Your Homepage’>Life Coaching had everything I was looking into a career. Just think, two years ago I did not know what a professional life coach was and now wanted to be one. I am happy to say I’ve spent the last year building my coaching practice. My goal is to go out every day and play at least one person through coaching skills. I do not regret not finding training before. I think we find things when we are ready, when our ears are open ojosy to see and hear. Life is much more rewarding when we are not sitting around waiting. For me it was like life coach who gave me the clarity and courage to take the next step. No matter who or what makes it possible for us to move forward as long as progress. My philosophy can be summed in a quote that I live, “Time passes and then is gone, so in the end all that matters is how we use it.” I look forward to all the truth-value life finding your calling, whatever it is. Anthony Grillo is a professional life coach and founder of Life Coaching moving based in New York. He specializes in working with passionate people to help them discover the path of life.
Life is a game, each day we approach a new game, some win and others lose. It is important for us to question our behavior both in moments of triumph and in those in which we are losers. Let’s look if all our moves have been “clean” if we have not tripping because those who believe our opponents and adversaries. Gratifying is when life invites us to participate in a game and despite having lost internally feel that we have won, have you ever felt this?, It really is rather satisfactory since you realize you’ve outgrown the need to be flattered, externally approved and celebrated with this simple act of domestic private just pick up the flight to inner liberation from the chains that we may be binding to this world of superficialities, awards and honors. Continuing with the thought or reflection Losing You know? , To see life and its various situations such as games and games, we take the drama to less favorable situations and suspending all judgments, we watch and decided to surrender and accept the mistakes that have led to the temporary loss in eternity.
Learn to lose, requires us very, very humble and the other high dose of faith in the divinity, otherwise will resort to settling of accounts by our own hands and believe me in most of these adjustments our emotions make us make mistakes sometimes glaring, that we must recognize if we are to live in peace with our consciences. Play fair, lose with dignity, recognize our mistakes on that play to not make the same in the following, humility to apologize when we have been guided by our impulses without considering the consequences, at times after having exhausted all our resources to do justice, give up and put our faith in divine justice when we have been boycotted and deceived getting an undeserved defeat. Being able to observe objectively and compassionately car at the end of the day and with new strength to wake up and continue with the new cards that give us life and make the best use of them, and if at the end of the day, even though we have not won, we are not the target of the plaudits and awards, within us to overflow the satisfaction of having given the best we had at that time and celebrate with the One who created us, having taken a small step towards our personal and spiritual evolution, which has neither will ever have anything to do with what others do and say, but with your own intimate world and individual experience. And finally I want to share with you this thought scientist Pascal, French philosopher and writer: What does it profit a man to gain the world if he loses his soul? TUGS MARIA Economist Specialist Human Resource Management Strategic Management Coaching for Life Group can join the “prosperity: to live in abundance” through this link:
Moreover, Malvicino Santiago says, that we believe that a professional coach for SMEs should be trained to guide a directory in the process of making decisions at a good coach defines the roles, goals and responsibilities before starting the relationship work, good coaching should get the best directory, help you move toward your goals and learn new skills. The characteristics of an effective coach are: listening, ability to questioning, analytical skills, knowing how to structure a good plan (and following) and the ability to connect to the board members to a continuous dialogue that results in the development of the entire organization. According to our experiences the coach to be effective must be willing to learn, be full, a good listener, assertive, improve business results and have a good sense of humor quotes Malvicino Take into account that a good coaching intervention begins in the directory of small and medium business and then goes down throughout the company. The first step in this process is to define the strategic, tactical and operational roles in the organization. If we analyze the organizational structure of any corporation to find: the shareholders who fulfill the role of providing the capital and in return receive a dividend, to the Directory from which emanates the company’s strategic policy, management from which comes the tactical and Finally, purely operational levels. a The fact that this here and now now, SMEs in the country should be open to new management styles, support of new tools such as coaching, giving way to a new organizational culture where all members know the role the company they represent, what expectations of your performance and the way of how the organization helps staff to grow, their needs, give way to develop their skills, abilities to ensure a productive atmosphere, successful business.
Coaching as a management tool involves two key figures: the coach and coachee. Thus the goal Management Coaching strategic competence is the activity carried out by a manager or executive (coach, guide, leader), to guide or lead to an employee (coachee, guided) a to a place or a goal each agreed, using specialized media a strategies or the coach manages to achieve lead to coachee at the agreed (or situation that is mutually achieved. In coaching we can then associate with the activities to achieve progress and shifting of the coachee towards the desired situation. The level of coaching success is measured both by the level at which progress is achieved or desired displacement, and by the degree of support "of this feed-in time: the stages of development and sustainability depend on both the coach and the (os) coachee (s). The executive or manager, to become in coach-requires management to acquire expertise in those areas that beyond its technical and managerial skills will empower and coach business in a context of human groups transformational leadership: leadership that is human systems shaped by human beings, cultural and emotional interrelated by multiple and complex conversational networks – verbal and nonverbal, which seek to achieve individual and collective goals. Hence the manager to act as coach-in a context of transformational leadership, not just increase their skills purely linguistic or cognitive-necessarily perfect, but requires well-mastered skills, emotional and body to provide it to him-and-reach groups by situations of optimal individual performance, group and organizational levels, leading to the achievement of high levels of prosperity and happiness.
Inspirational motivation has to do with clear communication of expectations, vision and mission and a shared commitment to the organization, actively engaging employees, providing the challenges and excitement in them. Intellectual Stimulation (IS), is related to actions and behaviors such as the stimulation of creativity and innovation partners, through constant questioning and finding new ways to perform their activities, reformulating problems and challenging them to alternatives outside the status quo. The individualized consideration, it is to pay special attention to the needs of individuals and groups to develop and grow according to the needs of the organization. All this in order to achieve better performance and greater satisfaction, fostering a greater commitment, involvement and loyalty, with less stress and despite the contingencies, and even, according to circumstances, try to reinforce, or change-culture and organizational policy, more participatory or more directors. The executive or manager, to become a coach, need to acquire managerial expertise in those areas that beyond its technical and managerial skills will empower and coach business leadership in a context of transforming human groups: it is in the leadership of human systems configured by human beings, culturally and emotionally interrelated, multiple and complex conversational networks, verbal and nonverbal that seek to achieve individual and collective goals. For this reason this course is aimed at providing a systemic approach based on Management Coaching, in order to increase the powers management. Management Methods of Coaching can be seen basically two different modes of Coaching Management. The first where the coach is external.
The concentrated COACHING scenarios and actors competing in a game to win. In the field of live game pragmatic experiences are the result of effort of each player and the joint team with the purpose of victory. All this will be led by a coach who will be a unique contribution to personal leadership, the explosion and use nuances of personal talent will be the label of each player, which mark the difference, ie, will be showcased. Finally they were convinced that coaching is a comprehensive system about a como is in the direction and mobilization towards the success of teams in global competition. a Coaching Background. Coaching is likely to have its origins in prehistory, but no one knows for sure.
However, moved into the twentieth century, between 1950 and 1960 decade, he cites a fact that serves as a reference to know how it was formed and evolved the method of coaching. During these developed decades about adult education programs conducted in New York City, which were based on some principles of learning. These principles state that the self-concept of adults tends to guidance staff, rather than dependence on others. In addition, they claim that adult learning is motivated by the need to tackle real life situations in a more effective. These educational programs were the basis for the development of a technique called Coaching.a addition to these programs related to education and learning, coaching have a special bond with sports psychology which some of its principles based on paying the most of our establish and achieve our goals and become a great player equipo.a Sports Psychology often relying on the victory-defeat model, but many coaches prefer to adopt contemporary philosophy athletes first, and then win, is precisely latter which is related to the Coaching.a In this vein, Macaluso (2006) suggests that coaching was born in the field of sports.
Surely more than once you’ve heard this term and has upset you so you decided not to listen / read what you were told about it. It may be possible, has a name quite technical and, for some reason, makes us think of exhibitors, skills and never-ending talks. I must confess that initially I was also dam of these unpleasant sensations, but as I was aware of what was really, I was increasingly interested, and found that its practice can radically change our lives. So I’d like to share a little of what I discovered about personal coaching, or the art of training the mind. The term personal coaching a was coined in the U.S.. States, in sport and fully translated, means a personal training. This is key, since it is precisely what we do if we want to achieve wellness in our lives: TRAINING. This does not mean that we should jogging every morning, make a number of exercises with weights or four laps to give the Olympic swimming pool every day, what we have to TRAIN IS OUR MIND. A mind that is not exercised, or is not willing, will never leave its parameters and, therefore, can never lead to happiness and welfare. Do you feel dissatisfied or satisfied by the life you lead? “DO YOU FEEL UNABLE TO MEET YOUR GOALS OR SIMPLY lack them? RETHINKING WANT YOUR LIFE BUT LITTLE BY Da “NDEA BEGIN? If you ask how are you, or the like, I have been around for the head, then it might be a good idea to resort to personal coaching, then you begin to train your mind to make the changes you require.
Inspirational motivation has to do with clear communication of expectations, vision and mission and a shared commitment to the organization, actively engaging employees, providing the challenges and excitement in them. Intellectual Stimulation (IS), is related to actions and behaviors such as the stimulation of creativity and innovation partners, through constant questioning and finding new ways to perform their activities, reformulating problems and challenging them to alternatives outside the status quo. The individualized consideration, it is to pay special attention to the needs of individuals and groups to develop and grow according to the needs of the organization. All this in order to achieve better performance and greater satisfaction, fostering a greater commitment, involvement and loyalty, with less stress and despite the contingencies, and even, according to circumstances, try to reinforce, or change-culture and organizational policy, more participatory or more directors. The executive or manager, to become a coach, need to acquire managerial expertise in those areas that beyond its technical and managerial skills will empower and coach business leadership in a context of transforming human groups: it is in the leadership of human systems configured by human beings, culturally and emotionally interrelated, multiple and complex conversational networks, verbal and nonverbal that seek to achieve individual and collective goals.
For this reason this course is aimed at providing a systemic approach based on Management Coaching, in order to increase the powers management. Management Methods of Coaching can be seen basically two different modes of Coaching Management. The first where the coach is external.
However, many centuries before there is a history in India and China authentic concerning contemporary coaching. Recall for example the work Tao Te Ching by Lao Tse, to which I can summarize by saying: a The who knows a lot of others is a knowledgeable, but wiser is he who knows himself is. He who dominates others is strong, but he who masters himself is more powerful a might also mention Confucius, Buddha . A, and many more. Socrates urges all self-examination and self-control which is driving. Question: a Can you trust someone who has no self-control? a Aristotle also says that man can become what you want. You can go from being a I what we call today’s reality, to have to b want to get the vision, objectives. The methodology for this path. Already in the last century, there has been an influence of existentialist philosophy.
The essence of coaching is individual existence determined individual existence existentialism. We have the capacity to become aware of our current reality and consider our own lives. Especially in environments a Hispanic Americans, has had some influence acceptance of Humanistic Psychology through the so-called Ontological Coaching. A HTSP is a type of coaching can affect aspects that seem related to what we call way of being of individuals. At the end of the last century Timothy Gallwey developed a method widespread in the sport which he called The inner game is best defined his own words:
2. Confidence vs. Control People do not just do not like to be controlled, but also that the control is no longer effective. The emotions predispose actions, depending on the emotional why we are being crossed, there are behaviors that are possible and others not. The control is based on the emotionality of the fear that restricts creativity, innovation and learning, people stop taking risks and facing challenges to go unnoticed and abide by the status quo. But the jobs have changed over time, today there is no simple task that this is where you do not have to be taken once a decision or face a challenge.
When that happens you can not always be there, plus you should not be there. The leader’s role is more akin to a conversational character operational again in another article on this point. On the other hand although it may be difficult to admit, most of the time the employees know more of his work that his own boss. So what roads can be opened to what is necessary is done? a) Build the enabling environment for action. The new regulatory systems require a different emotional for the emergence of skills required of new job profiles, talk of independent people who can respond quickly to change, proactive, capable of challenging targets and openness to learning. The emotionality that enables this kind of behavior is trust. b) The manager no longer in control coach focuses on actions and processes to manage results. 3.
The skills missing from their employees or equipment are an indicator of management. How many of us have seen year after year as performance evaluations, there are employees who consistently get low scores and immense opportunities for improvement to put it positively, such cases are resolved by dismissal or job rotation. Another point view that enables you to design actions to improve results is that: one of the indicators of competence as a leader, is directly related to development and learning of his team. The manager coach bet on the potential of each employee, the competent perceive possibilities beyond their present, while working in the gap between their current situation and the situation to achieve. Developing skills is a process of learning. All learning brings with it a small crisis for those passing through it is a movement of deconstruction and reconstruction that involves a level of anxiety and uncertainty. To cope with less resistance is important that the leader will hold its bond and generate an environment conducive to learning without penalizing the error. Under the coaching understand that someone learns when it increases its capacity to act effectively. So for anyone to learn is necessary to create the space for it to work, and occasionally make mistakes, mistakes and successes are well considered valued opportunities to learn. The question of leading the process will point to what is missing, and how I can assist the team to anticipate their breaks, to facilitate their learning and help dissolve the limitations?